When Cassandra’s son had a stroke in 2016, her world changed overnight. At 57, he suddenly required full-time care — needing help with everything from mobility to daily routines. On top of that, Cassandra was also caring for her husband, an Army veteran with dementia who receives skilled nursing care through the VA. The demands were constant, and the pressure was immense.

She was exhausted — physically, emotionally, and financially. The thought of placing her son in a care facility began to feel like the only way forward.

That’s when she was introduced to TCARE.

From the beginning, Cassandra felt seen. Her TCARE Specialist took time to listen, to understand her unique situation, and to walk alongside her — not just with encouragement, but with practical support. Over the next year, Cassandra was connected with her local office of aging, partnered with her son’s case manager, and received the resources and equipment they desperately needed.

One of the biggest turning points came in a small form: a shower bar. Bathing her son had become one of the most difficult tasks, especially after she injured her shoulder. Without proper equipment, she feared he might fall — or that she might injure herself further. With TCARE’s help, a safety bar was installed in their bathroom, and her anxiety around this daily task finally lifted.

“Maria, thank you for helping me get the shower bar for our bathroom. Since I hurt my shoulder, I was struggling to help Ricky and have been so afraid he would fall. Thanks for taking the time to really listen to me.”

— Cassandra T., caregiver for son and husband‍

With that single change, things started to feel more manageable. And over time, they only got better. Cassandra no longer felt like she had to make the impossible choice between caregiving and her own well-being. She avoided institutional placement for her son — a decision that not only brought peace of mind, but also saved the family over $3,500 per month compared to nursing facility costs.

Today, Cassandra reports low stress across every part of her caregiving journey. She feels empowered, informed, and steady in her role — with the confidence that she can keep her loved ones safe and cared for at home.